"I will soon be sending my 6 month baby to child care and am wondering how to reconnect. She is already having stranger anxiety and we've developed a strong bond. I don't want her to be mad at me for sending her there."
We asked our friend and colleague, Michelle Catania, (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), what advice she would give in this situation. Here is Michelle's response ....
TIPS FOR PICKING YOUR BABY UP FROM CHILD CARE
When our babies go off the child care it can be harder on us then it is on them. Reconnecting after pick up time will grow to be a favorite time for both of you. Planning for an uninterrupted 15 minute playtime / snuggle time when you come home can ease the transition between school and home.
As for giving comfort to your baby while in child care, it's important to remember babies are very aware of their parents’ anxiety. Having a child care arrangement that you are happy with will make you more comfortable with leaving your baby, which will make your baby more comfortable. They will sense that they are safe.
Babies are also very sensitive to their mama's smell. Sending in a blanket, lovie, little photo book, or burp cloth from home will add a comforting touch to a new place.
Last but not least, whenever possible, easy your baby into a new child care situation. Start with a couple hours, then lead into a whole day. Having someone else take care of our babies is tough, but good, licensed, accredited care can add socialization and awareness to our babies world.
